Message from Susan
at
Home2b.nl
ST. VALENTINE'S
DAY
on February 14
It's here again,
we have another
chance to spread the word of Love.
Oh but not, in a quick obligated way
but in a very real and special way.
Instead of just seeing this day as a commercial
day
to do
the consumer shuffle, why not think of a creative way
to tell someone
that you love and care for them.
You could make a card, instead of buying one.
You could make a cake in the shape of a heart.
You could make some heart shaped cookies
and bring them to work or school to share.
On an electronic modern note, you could send
an email Valentine to everyone in your office
or class,
telling
each of them that your appreciate them
just as
an individual.
If you are in a relationship with someone
and you live with them, you could put a card
into their lunch or suit jacket
that they will find during the course of the
day.
If you have a love and they live apart from
you,
you can invite them out to dinner,
or make that person a special meal.
Or together the two of you could make special
delicacies
that you
thought about making but never did because
it was too difficult or too much to make alone.
You could explore this new avenue of culinary
cusine together.
If you are without a mate, you could spend that
day
or a
part of it giving in some way, to a person in your family,
a
parent, a handicapped relative, or a forgotten relative
or any
person in need. Perhaps you could reach out
to that aunt of yours who would love to hear
from you.
Another
possibility would be for you to use this day of love
to mend a
bruised relationship, perhaps a former best friend.
The
important thing is that you reached out.
It is no reflection on you how that person
perceives your reaching out. If they have any
kind of love
in their heart at all, then they cannot
ignore your kindness and giving of love to
them.
They are not feeling very worthy at this point.
Remember, it is a blemish on their soul,
not yours as they are the person
who is not opening to an outreach of love.
They may respond to your outreach of love
when you least expect it, sometime in the
future.
Also
some people are only ready to open up
to animals because a dog or cat does not
disagree with them
and they do not have to hide their jealousies
with an animal.
Know that if they cannot open up to your love,
then they do not really know what love is.
They need your pity and not your anger.
It takes a certain maturity to love another
human being.
And it takes a higher vibration to love someone
who is not being loving even though you are
open to them.
Just send them love with your thoughts and who
knows,
someday they may come to a realization in their
life
and unexpectedly reach back and welcome you
into their life.
Right at this moment they may have superficial
distractions
that stand in the way of a flow of love.
It may also be a good idea to reach out to
someone new.
Perhaps
you may bring some flowers to a lonely
or new neighbor. Perhaps you want to make a new
collegue
or a new
student feel welcomed. Bring them something
to drink
or offer one of those heart-shaped cookies
you baked up or even ones that you bought
if you had no inclination or time to bake.
The important thing is to make some sort of
gesture of love especially to someone you love
but also to someone who is in need of love.
In fact, the more love you can spread,
the better. Because it is what the world
has too little of and what it needs the most!
Thank
you for spreading the LOVE !!!
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Updated July 22, 2011
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